si-mexico Chapter 350 Teacher Kong
Chapter 350 Teacher Kong
Seeing that Teacher Kong spoke sincerely, Yichen's mother didn't know what to say.
The woman nodded silently, indicating that she was willing to listen to Teacher Kong's story.
Teacher Kong gathered his sleeves again and said gently:
"Actually, when I talk about this matter, I feel full of guilt towards my child. I also did some things wrong." Teacher Kong looked distressed, and it was obvious that she was really sorry.
I just went to White Horse Park with my husband and daughter today. There is a pirate ship and a carousel in the park. My daughter loves the carousel so much that she rides on it many times every time we go and won't leave even if I ask her to.
Last month, I had a sudden inspiration and saw many children playing on the pirate ship next door, having a lot of fun and excitement, so I let my daughter go and play once, and then we went home.
"Ever since that incident, my daughter has been particularly reluctant to come to White Horse Park. No matter how we try to communicate with her, it's no use. Before we left today, my husband spent the entire night trying to get her to agree, and she finally agreed. But I noticed that throughout the trip, her face was tense, as if she was worried about something.
When we got there, she grabbed my hand and asked, "Mom, can we not play on the pirate ship?" I was shocked. Could it be that the last pirate ship ride had left a psychological scar on her? That's why she didn't want to go again.
I squatted down and nodded her head, and agreed to her request. Then my daughter went to play on the slide happily.
Of course her father took her there, and I took the opportunity to try out the pirate ship.
You never know until you try it, and I was shocked. The pirate ship swings so much that when it reached its highest point, my heart was in my throat and I almost vomited the big meat bun I had eaten that morning. After finally waiting for the ship to stop, I walked down with difficulty.
My heart is filled with guilt towards my daughter. I remember when she came down from the boat last month, her face seemed to be covered with gloom, without a trace of happiness.
[Of course, what you think is fun may not necessarily be fun for children.]
[Sometimes it's just the adults who want to play, and the children are just playing along with their parents.]
[Mr. Kong's daughter is so pitiful. She must have been terrified at that time...]
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When netizens in the live broadcast room saw this, they all started posting comments.
Yichen's mother also looked thoughtful. She asked:
"What then?"
Teacher Kong smiled slightly and was about to answer.
At this moment, a little girl ran into the camera, and a crisp voice came:
"Mom, next time, could you please ask the administrator to make the pirate ship more stable and comfortable so that you and Dad can sit with me? It feels so good to have the breeze!"
Teacher Kong turned around and said, "Okay, go to bed with Dad first."
"Okay!" The little girl laughed and ran away.
Teacher Kong turned around, looked at Yichen's mother and said:
"I talked to the administrator and asked him to adjust the amplitude range. My husband and I took turns taking my daughter on the ride a few times. As you saw just now, my daughter gradually began to appreciate the joy of riding the pirate ship. She didn't want to leave after having so much fun. When we got home, she kept asking me to come back next time."
"Some netizens in the livestream just said something very right. Sometimes adults think something is interesting and good for children, but we don't consider the child's actual situation and how it affects him when he faces it.
How the child feels inside, whether happy or afraid, consciousness determines actions.
The most direct and effective method is for adults to experience it first, or experience it with their children, and provide their children with suggestions and methods in the process.
Instead of being a bystander, applauding and shouting for him from under the pirate ship: "You are the best! Come on, you can do it!" In the face of the actual situation, these words seem pale and powerless and have no effect at all.
[It's the same pirate ship, but some things have changed, and some things haven't.]
Teacher Kong's words made me cry. She is such a good teacher.
[Online request: Is there any way for my child to become Mr. Kong’s student? ]
【It is so happy to be Mr. Kong’s student! 】
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When netizens in the live broadcast room saw this, they all expressed their admiration for Teacher Kong.
Yichen's mother lowered her head, looking thoughtful.
Half a minute later, the woman walked into the study and took out the math test paper and a pen that she usually assigned to her son.
Just like that, I started taking the test under the camera of the live broadcast room.
The netizens in the live broadcast room held their breath, like invigilators in an examination room, staring intently at Yichen’s mother taking the exam.
Half an hour later, the woman raised her head, her hair had been messed up by her, and Yichen's mother looked incredulous.
"I've tried this question three times, and I still can't get it right... I'm a graduate student from a top university..." The woman flipped to the page with the answers and muttered, "This trap is so... hard to guard against!"
After a few minutes, Yichen's mother spread her hands and said in frustration:
"Why didn't I get it right? Why is this problem so difficult..."
Teacher Kong smiled slightly and repeated, "Yes, for you, an adult who graduated from a 985 graduate school, it is already that difficult.
Think about your son Yichen. How does he feel when he faces these questions? Do you assign him a lot of questions every day?
Yichen's mother nodded, her heart ached and tears fell.
How painful and desperate her baby Yichen must feel when facing these problems every day, just like being in the deep darkness with no light in sight... How come she didn't notice it?
[I am also a 211 graduate student. My niece is in first grade, and I can't solve some math problems either.]
[Sigh... the questions are getting harder and harder these days, especially the reading and math questions. It's really hard on children if they can't answer them, and it can lead to a dislike for studying.]
[Summary: We should pay attention to children's feelings, love their love, and feel their pain.]
【Applause for the class representative! 】
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Many of the netizens in the live broadcast room are also parents, and they are all parents who are worried about their children.
After hearing Teacher Kong’s speech, I quietly went to Teacher Kong’s homepage and clicked “Follow”.
Teacher Kong received the backstage message and smiled slightly: "Thank you all for your love. I have gained a lot of fans. Thank you also to Master Ling for inviting me to the live broadcast."
"I still have makeup to take off, so I'll log off first."
"Bye~"
After the live broadcast ended, Mei Ling'er counted the gifts given by fans during tonight's live broadcast. Many of them were for Teacher Kong, and she felt embarrassed to keep them all for herself, so she converted them into RMB and gave half to Teacher Kong.